IS ANYTHING PERMANENT??

There are times when people say a lot of things, use big words, promise big things, but at the end of it all its all just words and more words. how do you know if those people will actually do the things that they say???

I've heard people say that nothing can be taken for granted, that nobody sticks to their word. people say that once something has been committed to paper it becomes permanent. but is that really true?? can't the paper get misplaced?? cant the paper be thrown away??can't it be torn to pieces?? can't it get soggy and the ink washed away??

I've heard people say that once you sign a legal paper, a bond paper you are bound by your word. but thats not really true is it?? marriage certificate is signed on bond paper in front of witness and yet divorces happen. people sell and buy property by exchange of these papers and yet frauds happen. so how is this permanent??

How do I believe people who make promises when nothing is permanent or reliable??

I remember the phrase " SET IN STONE"... according to the dictionary it means something that is no longer changeable or has become unchangeable... but that again is untrue... stones erode over the years, stones break, stones undergo metamorphosis and change into something absolutely different from what they were.. so when stones themselves are not permanent how can that words on them become unchangeable??

To some extent i believe actions can be permanent but then again these days actions can also be undone, everything actions committed comes with an undo button. the undo button may simply be a button like in Microsoft office or it maybe the money paid to people to keep their mouths shut.. but actions are also not permanent. so again i come back to the same question whom do you believe and how do you believe???

I know this may sound contradictory to what I've said till now but at times it isn't so much about the permanency of the actions or the words,  its the intent, the commitment offered... it is the way the person doing it feels and the way the person on the receiving end feels. its about the meaning hidden behind the actions and words because as they say nothing in this world is permanent except change itself...:)

So learn to be happy in the moment when the words are said and the actions taken and leave the rest to time..

GOOD NIGHT...!!