In a lot of ways I had been living my life based on what other people around me had going on in their lives.. Which I know is partly how life goes, you cant live for yourself alone but in my case i guess i had my life on hold for the future events that were going to happen.. I had stopped moving forward in terms of career and knowledge because i started believing in the cliche that," now that I'm getting married why do something for now when i would anyway be moving or shifting base". I had started living with the "might as well go there and start once i'm settled in my new life" thinking... Which frankly if one of my friends would've done i'd have slapped them across the face and said wake up... your not living anymore... etc etc... but as they say you cant see your own faults till you don't look at your life from the outside...
So after the break up I finally decided that i would stop putting my life on hold for people around me, especially for people who did not respect or understand the fact that I was giving something up for them.
So I got a new job. And i started talking to other guys my parents showed me. I'm ready to move forward in all ways and that's exactly what i did.
So here are the newest developments of my life...
Its been a Month into my new job.. Its exciting.. I learn something everyday or i'm just sitting and racking my brains trying to solve the bugs i'm facing.... i love the work environment and the flexibility... I cant wait to actually start doing the actual implementation of everything that i'm learning.. I realize i'm probably not as good at it as the other people working there but i'm learning and i'll get there...
Its been a few weeks into my new relationship... Its beautiful.. he is wonderful and makes me happy... I know a lot of people might find it too soon... but when you know when it's right, timing doesn't matter....
I've been exercising like crazy and probably look better now than i have in years... I'm in love with myself...
So all in all this is a happy year so far.. and i plan to keep it that way... that's all for now...
So i'm sign off saying, that people are right when they say that unless you are not happy about yourself you cannot make people around you happy.. :)
P.S. This is for anyone who wants to complicate my life... STAY OUTTA IT... Your not welcome.. ::) :)
So after the break up I finally decided that i would stop putting my life on hold for people around me, especially for people who did not respect or understand the fact that I was giving something up for them.
So I got a new job. And i started talking to other guys my parents showed me. I'm ready to move forward in all ways and that's exactly what i did.
So here are the newest developments of my life...
Its been a Month into my new job.. Its exciting.. I learn something everyday or i'm just sitting and racking my brains trying to solve the bugs i'm facing.... i love the work environment and the flexibility... I cant wait to actually start doing the actual implementation of everything that i'm learning.. I realize i'm probably not as good at it as the other people working there but i'm learning and i'll get there...
Its been a few weeks into my new relationship... Its beautiful.. he is wonderful and makes me happy... I know a lot of people might find it too soon... but when you know when it's right, timing doesn't matter....
I've been exercising like crazy and probably look better now than i have in years... I'm in love with myself...
So all in all this is a happy year so far.. and i plan to keep it that way... that's all for now...
So i'm sign off saying, that people are right when they say that unless you are not happy about yourself you cannot make people around you happy.. :)
P.S. This is for anyone who wants to complicate my life... STAY OUTTA IT... Your not welcome.. ::) :)
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